Monday, October 5, 2015

Thirty-One Things - Drink


So much of life is centered on food and/or drink (whether or not that is a good thing).  I remember at age 20 being bored at a party and getting bombed on straight gin BUT I also know how God used it for good.  From that experience, I never could acquire a taste for alcohol.

Nomy drink is coffee.  Coffee is not just a drink; it’s an experience!  I first learned to drink coffee on my first full time job. Forty hours a week at First National Bank of Akron, manually looking up credit ratings on index cards for branches and other banks.  [I will always remember “Harry Mann on Dick Street.]  Coffee then was majorly creamed and sugared.  Moving on to BFGoodrich, it was a way to break up the day.  A quarter in the vending machine down the hall, rank coffee in a thin paper cup, then walk back to the desksometimes with Lantz peanut butter crackers.  I had then switched to black.

Some of my best conversations have been around coffee.  It’s easier to speak deeply and listen intently when you are not fiddling around with silverware and balancing food and only talking when you’re mouth isn’t full.  That includes conversing and listening to myself.

As an introvert, I have spent many hours in a coffee shop with my books, my journal, and my Bibleespecially when I was renting an apartment. Now a days, I can enjoy that same pleasure on the porch, on the deck, or inside of my home.  When Ed came into my life, we often would go to Caribou or Arabica with our Bibles and write. 

Coffee brings people together. Some of my most meaningful times with my dearest friends have been over coffee.  Heather gave me insight into how good TGIFridays coffee is. I discovered that Swenson’s coffee is top notch, i.e., Douwe Egberts until recently not even available outside of a restaurant purchase. Coffee with the right person can energize me, validate me, slow me down, bring laughter, provide insight, provide me with alternative ideas and solutions, and encourage Christian fellowship. 

Sunday, October 4, 2015

Thirty-One Things - She says...


She says:

At home –
.  My poppymy pretty poppy(sing-songy)
.  I love you.
.  Now that was an Ed-ism!
.  Want to take a shower?
.  I need my meds.
.  Have you seen my flip flops?
.  You don’t have to rub my feet.
.  Don’t talk that way about my husband.
.  Seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeepy poppy.
.  I cannot wait to go on vacation.
.  Where’s your ball?
.  Want to watch something on Netflix?

To my children and grandchildren –
.  Love you!
.  Who wants a ho?
.  See Mamaw’s pretties?
.  Hi Mr. C.
.  I’m gonna get you eat you up.
.  Who wants to play Qwirkle?
.  Give me a hug
.  I’ll buy.
.  And on such pretty stationery.

.  Want me to pray?  Let’s pray.

Saturday, October 3, 2015

Thirty-One Things - Color


Color Conversation. I’m one who definitely loves color but that includes both bold and subtle, contrasts and neutrals, clear and muted. // (1) I do not have a favorite color.  I am drawn to different colors at different times of the year, often correlating with the seasons. // (2) Right now I am feeling pulled to golds, oranges, purples, and teal. We’re nearing Fall. // (3) The colors I chose for my October wedding were maize and eggplant, reminiscent of the goldenrod and ironweed found in the fields in September. // (4) I look best in cool, clear colors, contrasts, jewel tones. // (5) My bedroom is yellow with white trim set off by black furniture, giving it a look like a colonial “Lincoln bedroom” look.  Red is an accent color. // (6) I love the rich tones of deep red, burgundy, gold, pine greenthe traditional elegant colors of Christmas. // (7) I have to have one “spring” room in my house. That means colors of pastels of pale pink and pale green (sometimes pale yellow)so I can feel airy spring any time of the year just by walking into the room. // (8) I adore whites.  I wish I could have more whites/ neutrals in my home but alas, I have grandsons! // (9) One of my favorite dresses I made for Lydia had a small muted green leaf pattern with a pinafore of red geranium print. I have always been attracted to red geraniums. // (10) Sunflowers with their bright gold and texture always make me smile! // (11) One of my favorite scenes is winter white snow with icy pale blue when it is really cold. (12) My mother made a cake for missionary meeting at church when I was little.  The islands of Hawaii were covered with green coconut and the icing around it was a light blue. I remember thinking about how I liked those two colors together. // (13) When Caleb was little, he was drawn to neon orange and bright pink.  He also liked pouring things. Once he got ahold of my bright orange container that was FULL of liquid Tide and poured it all over the carpet in the basement. I only bought powder detergent after that. Trying to decorate a bedroom with bright orange and pink for a boy was a challenge. I came up with tropical fish! // (14) I love the colors from the twist Dairy Queen ice cream cone. // (15) Why does denim photograph in such a rich indigo blue? // (16) My favorite color crayon in the Crayola box was magenta. // (17) A favorite memory is the river of purple t-shirts flowing in downtown Cleveland as Ed and I participated in the Alzheimer’s Walk. // (18) I love the colors of the earth which change with the seasons. The colors are predictable and bring a sense of peace that all is well. // (19) I marvel at how the right combination of multiple colors can create a mood and evoke emotion.


Friday, October 2, 2015

Thirty-One Things - Home


Home. What is home? That seemed so simple as a child.  A brick, three-bedroom house on Pfeiffer Avenue. It was where my parents slept in one bedroom, my sister and I slept in another, and my brother slept in the bedroom across from the bathroom. It was where I walked to from school at lunchtime to have my mom-made baloney sandwich.  It’s where my dates picked me up and dropped me off (yes, even the guy who picked me up in a hearse). It’s where my mail came from friends I had made at church camp.

But now it is not quite so simple. My parents have died. My sister lives in Houston. My brother is moving to Tennessee. Is Akron still home? I have pondered this as I reflect on the word home. Caleb’s home used to be with me. Now his home is with two other young men with disabilities living in a house in Firestone Park with paid staff who run the group home. Lydia’s home was with her parents but now she lives in Hartville with a home of her own with her boys...about 20 minutes away

Is home a place? Or is it a state of being? What does it mean for one to feel “at home?”

Home is where I am most myself. Home is where I feel most loved. Home is where I feel a sense of belonging. Home contains what I treasure most. Home feels familiar.

Is home still home after loss. Nothing stays the same. Time marches on. Changes break familiarity. Unfamiliarity breeds discomfort and awkwardness. And what you long for and miss cannot be experienced the same again.

Since our honeymoon in Maine, we only vacation in West Virginia. It feels like home. It contains multiple memories among the mountains and hollers, as well as the earth that contains the graves of generations of my relatives. It holds memories of running through the freshly laundered sheets on the clothesline, baths with Zest soap after being grimy and sweaty, the coal burning stove in the living room, the curfew whistle, and trips to Foodland.

Limiting home to a single address is to put the home in a box. Home is where you are your most authentic self, your best self, where things make the most sense. And yet this world is not my home, and I know that eye has not seen nor has ear has not heard the things that God is preparing for me in my final eternal home.
 

Thursday, October 1, 2015

Thirty-One Things - Passion



A Passion for Christ//My only Hope.  The One who knows me and still loves me.  God in flesh who spared nothing for my sake.  My Everything.  My dearest Friend.  Life giver.  Savior.  My Constant.  Deliverer from myself.

A Passion for Ed//The originator of Ed-isms.  Super kisser.  Kindhearted.  Giver.  Compassionate.  Keeps me laughing.  Chauffer.  Great lover.  Christian.  Best friend.

A Passion for the Invisible//For those who are not seen and forgotten, especially those with severe disabilities.  Those with no voice.  Lifelong advocate on their behalf.

A Passion for Family//My beautiful Lydia.  My courageous Caleb. My three grandsons, Noah (smart as a tack)-Elijah (silly gentle soul)-Gabriel (just getting to know).  Praying they all find Christ and serve Him.

A Passion for West Virginia//Land that I love.  Land of my blood.  Appalachian culture.  Pristine country untouched by time.  The mountains are calling; I must go.  Let’s gooooooooo Mountaineers!

A Passion for Photography//It healed my grief after my dad died.  Learning to take good technical photographs evolved into the joy of capturing life and preserving memoriestelling stories.

A Passion for Quiet, Mindful Contemplation//Give me a cup of coffee, a Bible or nonfiction book, my journal, and the perfect writing pen and I am happy.  A porch swing is a BONUS!

A Passion for Nature//It revives me.  It is always changing.  Seasons bring routine and predictability.  Birding marvels me and brings awareness of the Master Designer.  Honestlymaking birds that navigate by the stars across continents.

A Passion for God’s Word//It endures, does not return void, transforms lives, is living and active, is relevant, is a road map, it is salt, it is light, it is a lamp to my feet, it keeps me from sin, it is food to my spirit, it comforts me, it draws me closer to the Lover of my soul.















Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Intro - The 31 Days Writing Challenge - 2015

I'm plunging in again this year...taking the 31 day writing challenge for the month of October.  It is a great way to revive my blog (yes, it has been dormant...but not dead).

This year I am combining it with Ali Edwards' class "31 Things." I receive a prompt of one word each day and run with it, never knowing where it will lead me.



I welcome your joining me, as well as your comments and your response to the word prompts.  This will be fun!

SEE YOU HERE OCTOBER 1!!!!

If you would like to link to this on your blog, you can grab my button below:


Thirty-One Things
Thirty-One Things

Sunday, April 5, 2015

Then Came the Morning


And Sunday changed everything...

I don't believe that Jesus' followers totally ruled out His claim of resurrection...and yet the fact that they were elated in full wonder makes one suspect they weren't really expecting it.  I like what Eugene Peterson writes:
It is not easy to convey a sense of wonder, let alone resurrection wonder, to another. It’s the very nature of wonder to catch us off guard, to circumvent expectations and assumptions. Wonder can’t be packaged, and it can’t be worked up. It requires some sense of being there and some sense of engagement.

Salvation hangs not from the cross but in the resurrection of Jesus that culminates all He said and all He claimed to be.  Timothy Keller puts it this way:
If Jesus rose from the dead, then you have to accept all that he said; if he didn't rise from the dead, then why worry about any of what he said? The issue on which everything hangs is not whether or not you like his teaching but whether or not he rose from the dead.
He lives!  My past was nailed to the cross and the resurrection is what has given me hope, a future, and a song to sing.  And I hang on to His every word.

Happy Easter!